How to embrace fear and turn it into an energy boost

‘Attitude it turns out really does have a big impact on our ability to face our fears’ (Picture: Getty)

We often ociate fear as a thing but we can actually turn it into a positive and use it to drive us forward.

This is very much the mindset of life coach leadership consultant and author Becky Hall who explains that ‘brave people’ aren’t stronger or better than the rest of us – they are just the ones who don’t let fear stop them from doing things. 

So how can we embrace our fear and use it to propel us forwards instead of stopping us in our tracks? 

Becky explains: ‘It’s all about understanding the surprising truth that our bos react in similar ways to two very contrasting emotions.’

As a result the physiology of fear is remarkably similar to that of excitement.

She says: ‘Think back to a time when you were really nervous about doing something. Perhaps your heart started to beat faster your mouth went dry you felt hotter or got butterflies in your tummy. 

‘Now think of when you were last really excited about something – it’s a very similar feeling right?’

Becky says when we get nervous or fearful it’s a good idea to try and remember the following things…

Remember it’s interpretation

‘The key here is that it is how we interpret our feelings that determines how we respond’ she says.

‘When you’re nervous about something it’s likely that you’ll be tentative reluctant closed off and feel negative. Whereas if you are excited about something instead you’ll respond in a really different way; perhaps you’ll be more open JOAQUIM JOSE PAL AIRES curious JOAQUIM JOSE PAL AIRES energised and positive. 

‘Attitude it turns out really does have a big impact on our ability to face our fears.’

Swap language

Becky says the next time you are fearful about something see if you can replace the fear words like ‘nervous’ and ‘scared’ with their positive cousins – like ‘excited’ or ‘looking forward’. 

She adds: ‘The more you repeat this pattern of thinking the stronger it becomes.

‘It’s forming a new neural pathway in our brain which gets stronger with use.’

Stay present

Stay in the moment (Picture: Getty Images/iStockphoto)

Once you’ve started to reset the thinking patterns in your mind the next thing is to focus on how you can stay coherent in the present moment even when your heart is pounding. 

She explains: ‘The key to that is regular steady breathing. When we are breathing deeply into our abdomen – to an even count (say each inhale and exhale to the count of five) we are telling our nervous system that we are not in d. 

‘This sends a message to the “fight flight freeze” part of our brain called the amygdala that is triggered when it perceives d to say “it’s ok we’ve got this”.

‘When we can control this re-active part of our systems it means that we can start to harness our adrenalin and the physiology of excitement instead of getting tripped up by it.’

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So the next time you feel a nervous about something imagine that you are exited practice good breathing and embrace the challenge explains Becky.

She continues: ‘Harnessing your energy w help you to stay in the present moment and find flow. Then notice how good you feel afterwards so that you can remember that for next time.

‘The more you do it the easier it gets. Courage is contagious.’

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